it's complicated

Ever wondered how life will be different if just one person makes a change?

Let me give an example.

A birthday party with 7 people giving a small surprise to the birthday boy/girl

1) If everybody has already prepared themselves and know their roles but the planner does not care about it, what do you think will happen?

2) If everybody is having fun except for one for is in a very bad mood?

3) If one person is being too much of a spoiler who leaks almost everything out?

Ok. I'm not saying these things are happening, but rather, I am making references.

I am trying to express this section in a third party's point of view so i won't be too biased towards any side. But forgive me if you find my writing a little towards one.

Sometimes, I wonder why things can become so complicated when there should be nothing to worry about in the first place? Yea, I agree that it may be quite hard to change this "habit" of yours just to cater to the occasion. But what if you try and things get better?

Then you should give yourself a pat on your back as you did a great job(:

In some scenarios, you will actually experience people who does not bother about the situation at all. That will really piss people off, such that the atmosphere becomes tensed, the others become unhappy and the whole situation may end up with no conclusion.



Next, have you actually wondered what you would become if you possessed a skill which everyone deems it too be THE ULTIMATE?

I HAVE!

If only i was.. If only I could do that... If only I had the ability to do that..

This will definitely occur in everyone's mind. Basically, this whole reality thing is based on comparison.
"The winner takes it all"
"There is a higher mountain after the highest mountain"

However, some people give up due to fear such that they miss a good opportunity to fight back or have a second chance to get what they really want. As said by Alexander Graham Bell,

"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us."

Yet, no matter what happens, we should always smile and let it go slowly. It is true that some things are never meant to let go or to be forgotten. But your happiness cannot be denied because of this. Still, just smile and enjoy the moment before you miss the golden opportunity of finding happiness for yourself.

"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."



I have a few regrets in the Year 2010.

For failing to choose the right school
For failing to choose the right partners
For failing to fulfill my duties as a sister
For failing to do my duties as a daughter
For failing to make people around me happy
For failing to live up to my expectations
For failing to do what I am supposed to do
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The pain comes back every time i think about each moment that i dare not dream. Yes, I laugh it off but it still comes back when the "drug" wears out.


I hope to be a better person and i hope to be determined to change real soon so that people around me can know the real me.



Some phrases which I think will inspire.

1) Live with no excuses and love with no regrets

- Montel

2) You've got to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you've got, and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes, but never regret.

- Unknown

3) It`s funny how hello always ends with a goodbye,
it`s funny how good memories can start to make you cry.
It`s funny how forever never really seems to last,
it`s funny how much you`d lose if you forgot about your past.
It`s funny how friends can just leave you when you`re down,
it`s funny how when you need someone they`re never around.
It`s funny how people change and think they`re so much better,
it`s funny how many lies can be packed in one "love letter".
It`s funny how people forgive even though they can't forget,
it`s funny how one night can contain so much regret.
It`s funny how ironic life turns out to be
but the funniest part of all, none of that`s funny to me.

- Unknown

4) Happiness needs sadness.
Success needs failure.
Benevolence needs evil.
Love needs hatred.
Victory needs defeat.
Pleasure needs pain.

You must experience and accept the extremes. Because if the contrast is lost, you lose appreciation; and when you lose appreciation, you lose the value of everything.

- Philippos